Top Tips for Teaching Kids to Brush and Floss

Key Takeaways

How can I teach my child to brush and floss properly?

  • Start Early: Oral care should begin before the first tooth appears.
  • Make Brushing Fun: Use music, timers & reward charts to keep kids engaged.
  • Teach Proper Technique: Brush at a 45-degree angle for two full minutes.
  • Floss Daily: Use child-friendly floss picks and the C-shape technique.
  • Encourage Healthy Eating: Crunchy veggies, dairy & water support strong teeth.
  • Visit the Dentist Regularly: Checkups every six months help prevent dental issues.

Getting kids to brush and floss properly can be a challenge. Some rush through it, miss key spots, or resist altogether. The right approach can turn this daily routine into a positive habit that lasts a lifetime.

At Elite Orthodontics, we help parents establish good oral hygiene routines for their children. These practical tips make brushing and flossing easier, more effective, and even enjoyable.

1. Start Early and Make It a Routine

Oral care begins before a child’s first tooth appears. Establishing a routine early on makes brushing and flossing second nature as they grow.

For Babies (0-1 Year Olds):

  • Wipe gums with a soft, damp cloth or a silicone finger brush after feedings. This removes bacteria and introduces the sensation of oral care. 
  • Once the first tooth appears (around six months), use a smear of fluoride toothpaste on a soft-bristled toothbrush.
  • Avoid putting babies to bed with milk or juice to prevent tooth decay.

For Toddlers and Young Kids:

  • Brush twice a day, morning and night.
  • Stick to a consistent routine—same time, same place.
  • Use a timer or brushing app to encourage two full minutes of brushing.
  • Lead by example—when kids see parents brushing and flossing, they’re more likely to do it too.

Consistency helps children develop habits that feel like a normal part of their day.

2. Make Brushing Fun and Engaging

If brushing feels like a chore, kids will resist. A few simple tricks can make it enjoyable.

  • Play a favorite two-minute song to keep them brushing for the right amount of time.
  • Let them pick their own toothbrush—a colorful design or favorite character can boost enthusiasm.
  • Use a reward chart with stickers for each completed brushing session. Small rewards at the end of the week keep them motivated.
  • Brush together—kids love mimicking adults, so turn it into a family activity.

Making brushing interactive encourages kids to look forward to it.

3. Teach the Right Brushing Technique

Scrubbing back and forth isn’t enough. Teaching kids proper technique ensures a thorough clean.

  • Hold the toothbrush at a 45-degree angle toward the gum line.
  • Use gentle, circular motions to clean all surfaces of the teeth.
  • Don’t forget the back molars and tongue—these areas are often missed.
  • Brush for two full minutes—using a timer or brushing app helps.

Parental Tip: Most children need supervision and assistance with brushing until about age seven or eight when they develop better motor skills.

4. Make Flossing a Daily Habit

Flossing removes plaque and food particles that toothbrushes can’t reach. Starting early prevents cavities between teeth.

How to Teach Kids to Floss:

  • Begin flossing as soon as two teeth touch (usually by age two or three).
  • Use child-friendly floss picks, which are easier for small hands to maneuver.
  • Show them how to slide the floss gently between teeth without snapping it
  • Teach the C-shape technique—curving the floss around each tooth and moving it up and down.

If flossing feels challenging, try doing it together or let them practice on a stuffed animal with “teeth.”

5. Encourage Healthy Eating for Strong Teeth

Diet plays a big role in dental health. Certain foods strengthen teeth, while others contribute to decay.

Tooth-Friendly Foods:

Crunchy vegetables like carrots and celery help clean teeth naturally.
Dairy products like cheese and yogurt provide calcium for strong enamel.
Apples and strawberries help remove plaque and freshen breath.

Foods to Limit:

  • Sticky candies that cling to teeth and promote cavities.
  • Sugary juices and sodas that erode enamel.
  • Starchy snacks like chips and crackers that break down into sugars.

Drinking plenty of water and chewing sugar-free gum after meals can help reduce plaque buildup.

6. Schedule Regular Dental Checkups

Even with great at-home care, professional checkups are essential. Pediatric dentists provide preventive care and identify issues early.

Regular checkups help with:

  • Checking for cavities or early signs of tooth decay.
  • Monitoring proper tooth development.
  • Reinforcing good hygiene habits in a kid-friendly way.

At Elite Orthodontics, we recommend visits every six months. A welcoming, stress-free environment makes appointments enjoyable for kids and helps them develop a positive attitude toward dental care.

Helping Kids Build Lifelong Healthy Habits

Brushing and flossing don’t have to be a struggle. The right approach makes it easier for kids to develop lasting habits. With consistency, fun incentives, and regular dental visits, they can maintain a healthy smile for years to come.

At Elite Orthodontics, we’re here to support you. From demonstrating proper flossing techniques to creating a positive dental experience, we’re ready to help.

Time for your child’s next checkup? Call us at 973-706-8339 or book an appointment online today!

A lifetime of great oral health starts with small daily habits—let’s build them together!

FAQ

When should I start brushing my baby’s teeth?

Start oral care before teeth emerge by wiping gums with a damp cloth. Begin brushing with a tiny amount of fluoride toothpaste as soon as the first tooth appears.

How can I make brushing fun for my child?

Use music, brushing apps, colorful toothbrushes, and reward charts to keep them engaged. Brushing together as a family also makes it more enjoyable.

What’s the best way to teach kids proper brushing technique?

Teach them to brush in gentle, circular motions at a 45-degree angle for two minutes. Supervise brushing until around age seven or eight.

When should my child start flossing?

Flossing should begin when two teeth touch, usually around age two or three. Child-friendly floss picks make it easier for little hands.

What foods help keep kids’ teeth healthy?

Crunchy veggies (carrots, celery), dairy (cheese, yogurt), and fibrous fruits (apples, strawberries) help clean teeth and strengthen enamel.

How often should kids visit the dentist?

Children should visit the dentist every six months for checkups and cleanings to prevent cavities and ensure proper tooth development.